Sunday, September 16, 2012

No bounds, No end

First off how can you measure "love"?  Is it something you can measure at the most tiny and smallest forms? i think so. I'm not talking about objects and things of that nature, but I'm talking about your every day relationships and interactions with other people. Is there "love" there? That thing you feel when your crush walks by and actually says "hi" to you is love no doubt. People say "oh a crush isn't love" then what is it ? I'm not saying its a great amount of passionet love, but its definitely "like". And "like" is a small form of love i say. I would  say you have small, tiny forms of love in all your friendships too. How else would it be possibly to like other people if you were not blinded ever so slightly by "love". I do not think love is just a reserved emotion for your significant other. It is obviously in your family relationships. You have deep connections with your family and that is undoubtedly love.  If you hate someone all it is is empty space where you have chosen not to put any amount of love there, or if you really hate them you have negative love towards that person.

But how can we describe love? How can we define love? This is the problem with humans, We can't just come to grips with it. We have to define it and describe it and make it "known". But love is actually the "unknown".  We don't know why we feel a certain way, why are we being filled with these feelings that we cant explain? That's why we make the attempts to describe it with other things that are "known". Love is the thing that make us feel warm inside when we need it. But is it not the same thing that made us cold in the first place?  Its what makes us feel comfortable but its also what makes us scared. Falling in love is like traveling into  the "unknown". It is the answer to every problem it creates. It double dips into are emotions and that's why we can't get a feel for it.

The big question always is and will remain , what is love? But the fact is there are no real complete answers to what love is. And there are a million answers to what love feels like. Because its that indescribable, unmeasurable, un-faced emotion that everybody needs craves and desires. Love has no rules, it has nothing to follow. It will do what it pleases and it wont ever stop. Love is what keeps this world going. Its the bad and the good all wrapped into one thing and that's why we can't fully understand what it is.

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